On 18
December 2013, a
man appears on my Skype. I call him Oscar, his real name is irrelevant. He
wants to be accepted. I ask him why. He was looking for someone with my name
and came to me. It was a nice conversation. His question was if I could not get
on Yahoo. I was unable to create an account He did so, and sent all the
credentials to me. It worked wonderfully. We had fun, but also nice
conversations with a lot of understanding. He soon came up with the words "I
love you". Not once, but with large quantity. Sometimes even too much. He
told little about himself. Was a widower, had two sons and his wife lost. I
asked him to send pictures of themselves and the photo on Yahoo, he turned to
him in uniform. He did not only look good, but was a strong personality, who
made a deep impression on me. Had a special function in a war zone. I will
not tell you where. The reason comes later in this story. According to
him, his love for me in a
short time was increasing, while
I remained conservative, though I did find it
more and more. Maybe I was already a bit of
love. He talked about the fact that
God would bring if we were meant for each other. Us together For me, the
same rule applied. Moreover, I believe
this additional. In beginning of the year 2013, a friend had predicted
that I would meet a man. Uniformed,
from abroad. I never doubt his story. Phrases like: I love you so
much Maus I miss you with all my heart, dozens of times past
On December
25, he asked me to marry him. I found it very quickly, but his picture, I really believed in him. And sometimes true love can strike like lightning inside. It all went to fast, because I saw him only on paper. You never know who is really
behind. He sent beautiful love letters and showed itself as the most romantic
that you can think of. I printed the little love stories out to them again
after reading. One of them, I will show that really deep touched me:
I love you so much, Sweetie. You are the best
thing that ever happened to me. You , the best song ever played, the best
picture ever painted. I never thought that someone like me could get so lucky
to have you with m In this life Maus. I love you and I trusted so much in you
Maus you my future. I love you more than my life, more than my world. I love
you more and more each day and that is the most wonderful feeling any man can
ever hope to experience even though it is very late with me now I wish to have
you with me soon my love.
On December
26, we had again nice conversations in the morning. Than he wrote that he
trusted me enough now to tell you a secret. He wanted a package to come from
another country. Or it might be sent to me. It did me no good. There was also a little
voice inside me that kept saying: Caution Maus. I became angry and told him
that this was very dangerous. I knew him only on paper. Had no idea who he
really was. I told him that we were warned of this type of practice, and I did
not need to get involved. Enough here to It could be drugs in it.
He became
angry and called me suddenly woman instead of Maus or love. I told him that my
name was Maus and he could call me so. I just had no sense here, took leave of
him and put everything out. That night I heard nothing more. For sure, I
called the police and asked him what
I could do. I wanted to trust, but did not feel that confidence into my
heart. The woman
I spoke on the phone told that I
should receive the first packet. So where is the
police for, you ask at such
time off, though
there are good cops that give you real advice.
This was really an exception.
On December
27, it still felt bad and I asked a good friend for advice. Oscar asked again
and again to tell anyone about him, but because he did so secretive and no one
was allowed to know, I had a friend who now feel his picture. It felt good the
friend said, and maybe it was all well-intentioned. Just too dangerous from
which he was to get the package. By now we had been talking about what he
wanted. I told him that I only had a very small income and a debt to the bank.
Anyway, I would never want to live in his country. All was not a problem. He
had plenty of money and was also arranged those banking He just came to live
with me and the house was too small, he wanted to buy a bigger house. It was
for him not important not to live into my country. It was all too easy.
Still, I did not dwell.
The friend felt nothing
wrong with the picture itself and I always had
the feeling that it would go well. We came back
a little to each other until
he said in an interview that he had yet to send
the package. Assignment. I was a bit upset that
he had done this yet
uninvited. In the afternoon, I
decided to drive to the U.S. base to ask what I
could do. The confidence I
had Oscar was
gone. Was it a coincidence that
the only person who was there
at the time, had just disappeared? I had to after the holidays,
but come back Monday. Police do nothing, a
base where no one was present.
Was this a coincidence, or I was in my feelings
really wrong. I decided
on the latter and took back in touch with Oscar. Maybe I was indeed
wrong and it was all very innocent. Coincidence does not exist,
I always tell myself
so I had to assume that I was wrong. I explained the Oscar and told that I
had an appointment after the holidays to the
Monday on the base. I wanted to be honest,
but did not know if it really came through. I really
did not know whether he was
honest or that he belonged to
a gang that people brought properly into misery. I
asked him if he really was the one for whom he impersonated. Was he reyl the General. or there was a totally
different person behind that face? I really
do not know. He never answered my questions.
That of course could be dangerous in connection with his work, yet? I wanted to understand everything and was now quite impressed with him. He
was a strong personality, which
you have to watch out that you do
not get snowed properly.
Who and what was Oscar
in real life, I had no idea. The next morning it was back to normal. Pretended nothing had happened. For me it felt not really so. On the one hand, I was in love, and according to him he. On
the other hand, felt the double.
I was even quite in
love, but remained wary. At one point he told me that I would get from the society
that his package was sent to the Netherlands .
Confirmation Okay then. I said A, this
was B. The bill came in through the mail
on Yahoo. I saw that there had to be 850 euros paid
to shipping. Oscar asked me
to pay that amount. Moment that Once the package was
in my house, he will gave
me a code to
thereby open the package so I could make sure everything was fair.
This was for me the beginning of the end. I asked him
where I had to get the hell
away money. He did not believe that I did not
even possess. What I could then pay, he
asked again, very hard. The tone of the letters changed overnight. I still knew that he
came here in a short time and
would give what I needed? Me everything I still knew
I could trust him in everything. Why should I
not be able to pay that amount for him, he wondered. Incredibly, the
man would not even understand that
I had no money. I could still borrow
from friends, he said quite cheeky. The tone
changed more and more in anger, but I reminded him that I was not going to for anyone
getting into debt. He had to send me the money first and then I would be receiving
the package. The friend I had his photo show, and for
which I explained this had the same feeling as
I do. This is no longer true.
Although we felt that
neither of the picture.
Out who was really behind it? How dangerous was it all in reality?
Would anyone really his job as General risking
a package?
I have the contact broken, just last night briefly
explained why I refused.
The General, when he is real, was very angry and told me to leave him alone. Well, I did. Had
everything copied every day, stored and filed
with two different friends, if anything
ever happen to me. Did then
removed him from Skype, as well as all of
Yahoo. Have copied all the original interviews. No, I do not have to lick. Avoid
injury. The infatuation disappeared
immediately when he asked me to
pay the bill. Am grateful to him even. For a long time
I could not handle grief nine years. Now I discovered that I could fall in love again all was forgotten
instantly. Is not it nice? But when I see his face on Linkedin I really melts. Feel my heart beating again. I can not believe that he has made to me. Abuse Maybe he is in a position that he can not really transfer? I really do not know. He looks so pretty and reliable. At this moment I feel that I want to be really close to him Yet he knew that I had nothing. So why ask so compelling? Now I've seen his face again ,I can not say it, therefore there is still too much sense
The only thing I have with it is now, is: should I turn him or
not? Was all honest and well-intentioned
or was it Scam? Is
he really the General or is there something else behind. I really do not know. Today, the transition to the year 2014. A new start a new beginning. I would like to hear your opinion on this. You can give the
bottom of the page, by clicking on the comments and
give your opinion. My feeling is,
on the one hand 'yes´, and so on the other hand,
'no'. It feels very double, a sign that there is quite
a bit of sense
to sit him.
His photos are very
trustworthy. Would two people with pictures work both
have so wrong? Maybe these pictures abused by another
person.
Could it be that it was all really innocent and
that he would really come to live
here? I have no idea
what to do. Perhaps you had the same experience? What
did you do? You might want to tell you about it?
Reed here what is on the paper from the Telegraaf.
Reed here what is on the paper from the Telegraaf.
This story I have with the translator
of Google translated
sentence by sentence while
writing it. My English
is not good, though I learned a
lot last 14 days. For that reason
alone it was a special story.
I hope to come back one day the real truth
and to display
it. So that any innocent people have no problems. My excuse for the mistakes
I've made in the English
text.
I wish you all a wonderful 2014, full of love and happiness in all health.
Maus (maus-sturmer@home.nl)
I wish you all a wonderful 2014, full of love and happiness in all health.
Maus (maus-sturmer@home.nl)